■ gardener hand is written down

□ bright army
　　

As a teacher, see when you a child prepares to pick the oldest rose in the garden when, how can be you done?

An old person walks over to ask: "Why should you pick this flower? " the child admires a face to say: "Because I like it very much, I want to come home its belt. " " since you like this flower very much, then I send you it, nevertheless you are to want to let it grow here, look a few days more, still want to take away? " the child chose latter, the old person is written on beautiful branch went up the name of this child.

A president walks over, stoop waist affectionately asks: "The child, who do you pick this flower to want to send? " kids says: "My grandma is very ill, I tell her to there are a such old roses in this garden, the grandma is not believed, I want to be picked send her to look, after looking, I send back the flower. " this president brings the child to greenhouse, picked two old roses again additionally, say to the child: "Award gives you this one, you are a child that knows love; This one gives you mother, thanked her to foster you a such good children. " this president is Suhuomulinsiji.

Above two different people in these two stories, they have the wisdom of pedagogue, did not analyse the child's action with adult logic, use however good-tempered the dignity that upheld a little heart. They are passed communicate, had openly education to the child, if imagine the word that did not communicate, what result is that meeting? Professor Xie Lan has said: "Educational activity of the mankind results from communicate, education is a kind of of the mankind special communication activity. " did not communicate have education impossibly, losing communication education is unsuccessful education. Our teacher answers a few less adult standard, the wisdom of many somes of educationist, many somes of communication with the child.